Stardew Valley Sebastian: Romance Guide, Schedule, Love, Likes, Neutral, Dislikes, Hates, Heart Events And More
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Stardew Valley Sebastian: Romance Guide, Schedule, Love, Likes, Neutral, Dislikes, Hates, Heart Events And More

Gemma Le Conte
26 October 2020

Lovers of angsty emo boys, Sebastian's your match, romance him in Stardew Valley.

Stardew Valley is all about growing your farm, but what's the point if you have no one to share it with?

Luckily there are a number of villagers you can court!

What about the mysterious and aloof Sebastian?

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Sebastian Romance Guide

The townspeople tend to be really outgoing and talkative.

You'll find the case to be different when it comes to Sebastian.

He's an emo loner who would prefer to stay in his room to play games and what sci-fi, my kind of guy.

Find out how to romance Sebastian with his schedule, heart events, likes, dislikes, loves and more.

Schedule

Spring

Sunday - Wednesday (and Thursdays in 1st year)

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00 PM: Leaves his computer and goes to the kitchen.
  • 3:40 PM: Leaves the kitchen to go back to his room.
  • 4:10 PM: On his computer.
  • 6:30 PM: Leaves home and walks to the lake next to his house to smoke.
  • 7:30 PM: Smoking by the lake next to his house.
  • 9:30 PM: Goes back to his house.

Thursday (11th & 25th) (if not friends with Abigail)

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:00 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 12:00 PM: In his room, standing by the couch.
  • 5:30 PM: Leaving his room to go to the kitchen.
  • 6:30 PM: On his computer.
  • 9:30 PM: Goes to bed.

Thursday (2nd Year Onwards)

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 2:00 PM: Leaving home to go smoke by the train station.
  • 3:00 PM: Smoking by the train station.
  • 6:20 PM: Standing east of the train station, by the tunnel.
  • 8:10 PM: Standing west of the train station, by the tunnel.
  • 9:30 PM: Heads home.
  • 10:20 PM: Arrives home.

Friday

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00 PM: Leaves his room to go play pool with Sam at the Saloon.
  • 5:20 PM: In the Saloon, playing pool with Sam.
  • 9:10 PM: Heads home.
  • 11:10 PM: Arrives home.

Saturday

  • 9:00 AM: Leaves house to go to Sam's house.
  • 11:30 AM: In front of Haley and Emily's house with Sam.
  • 12:30 PM: Follows Sam to his room.
  • 1:00 PM: In Sam's room.
  • 6:00 PM: Leaves Sam's house with Sam and goes to the river.
  • 6:20 PM: Smoking by the river outside Sam's house with him.
  • 7:30 PM: Going home from in front of Sam's house.
  • 9:40 PM: Arrives home.

Rainy day (Option 1)

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and leaves the house to go to the beach.
  • 1:30 PM: Standing at the end of the long pier to the left of the fish shop.
  • 5:00 PM: Leaves the pier to go home.
  • 7:40 PM: Arrives home and goes to bed.

Rainy Day (Option 2)

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00 PM: Leaving the house to go to the Saloon.
  • 5:20 PM: At the Saloon, standing by the red sofa in the arcade.
  • 9:10 PM: Heads home.
  • 11:10 PM: Arrives home.

Summer

Sunday-Wednesday

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00 PM: Leaves his computer and goes to the kitchen.
  • 3:40 PM: Leaves the kitchen to go back to his room.
  • 4:10 PM: On his computer.
  • 6:30 PM: Leaves home and walks to the lake next to his house to smoke.
  • 7:30 PM: Smoking by the lake next to his house.
  • 9:30 PM: Goes back to his house.

Thursday

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 2:00 PM: Leaves home.
  • 3:00 PM: Arrives at the Railroad crossing sign.
  • 6:00 PM: Moves to the east Railroad tunnel.
  • 7:30 PM: Moves to the west Railroad tunnel.
  • 9:30 PM: Leaves for home.
  • 10:20 PM: Arrives home.

Summer 4

  • 9:00 AM: In his room, by the bookcase.
  • 10:00 AM: Leaving the house to go to the clinic.
  • 11:50 AM: In the clinic's waiting room.
  • 1:40 PM: In the clinic's examination room.
  • 4:00 PM: Heads home.
  • 6:00 PM: Arrives at his room and goes to bed.

Friday

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00 PM: Leaves his room to go play pool with Sam at the Saloon.
  • 5:20 PM: In the Saloon, playing pool with Sam.
  • 9:10 PM: Heads home.
  • 11:10 PM: Arrives home.

Saturday

  • 9:00 AM: Leaves house to go to Sam's house.
  • 11:30 AM: In front of Haley and Emily's house with Sam.
  • 12:30 PM: Follows Sam to his room.
  • 1:00 PM: In Sam's room.
  • 6:00 PM: Leaves Sam's house and goes to the river with Sam.
  • 6:20 PM: Smoking by the river outside Sam's house with Sam.
  • 7:30 PM: Going home from in front of Sam's house.
  • 9:40 PM: Arrives home.

Rainy Day (Option 1)

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and leaves the house to go to the beach.
  • 1:30 PM: Standing at the end of the long pier to the left of the fish shop.
  • 5:00 PM: Leaves the pier to go home.
  • 7:40 PM: Arrives home and goes to bed.

Rainy Day (Option 2)

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00 PM: Leaving the house to go to the Saloon.
  • 5:20 PM: At the Stardrop Saloon, standing by the red sofa in the arcade.
  • 9:10 PM: Heads home.
  • 11:10 PM: Arrives home.

Fall

Rainy Day (Option 1)

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and leaves the house to go to the beach.
  • 1:30 PM: Standing at the end of the long pier to the left of the fish shop.
  • 5:00 PM: Leaves the pier to go home.
  • 7:40 PM: Arrives home and goes to bed.

Rainy Day (Option 2)

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00 PM: Leaving the house to go to the Saloon.
  • 5:20 PM: At the Stardrop Saloon, standing by the red sofa in the arcade.
  • 9:10 PM: Heads home.
  • 11:10 PM: Arrives home.

Monday-Wednesday

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 12:00 PM: Leaves home and walks to the lake next to his house.
  • 2:00 PM: Goes to the part of the lake outside the mine's entrance.
  • 3:00 PM: Leaves the mine's entrance and heads to the other side of the lake.
  • 3:30 PM: Is smoking at the edge of the lake close to the bridge.
  • 4:00 PM: Returns home to his kitchen.
  • 5:30 PM: Leaves his kitchen.
  • 6:00 PM: On his computer.

Thursday

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 2:00 PM: Leaving home to go smoke by the train station.
  • 3:00 PM: Smoking by the train station.
  • 6:20 PM: Standing east of the train station, by the tunnel.
  • 8:10 PM: Standing west of the train station, by the tunnel.
  • 9:30 PM: Heads home.
  • 10:20 PM: Arrives home.

Thursday (11th) (if not good friends with Abigail)

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:00 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 12:00 PM: In his room, standing by the couch.
  • 5:10 PM: Leaving his room to go to the kitchen.
  • 6:00 PM: Leaves the kitchen to go back to his room.
  • 6:30 PM: On his computer.
  • 9:30 PM: Goes to bed.

Friday

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 3:00 PM: Leaves his room to go play pool with Sam at the Saloon.
  • 5:20 PM: In the Stardrop Saloon, playing pool with Sam.
  • 9:10 PM: Heads home.
  • 11:10 PM: Arrives home.

Saturday

  • 9:00 AM: Leaves house to go to Sam's house.
  • 11:30 AM: In front of Haley and Emily's house with Sam.
  • 12:30 PM: Follows Sam to Sam's room.
  • 1:00 PM: In Sam's room.
  • 6:00 PM: Leaves Sam's house and goes to the river with Sam.
  • 6:20 PM: Smoking by the river outside Sam's house with Sam.
  • 7:30 PM: Going home from in front of Sam's house.
  • 9:40 PM: Arrives home.

Sunday

  • 9:00 AM: In his bed.
  • 10:30 AM: Gets out of bed and moves to his computer.
  • 12:00 PM: Leaves home and walks to lake next to his house.
  • 1:00 PM: Standing by the lake next to his house.
  • 4:00 PM: Returns home for the night.

Winter

Winter 16

  • 10:30 AM: Wakes up and goes to his computer.
  • 3:00 PM: Leaves room and goes to the kitchen.
  • 3:40 PM: Goes back to the room and returns to his computer.
  • 5:00 PM: Leaves his home to attend Night Market.
  • 11:30 PM: Leaves Night Market to return home.

Sunday - Wednesday

  • 10:30 AM: Wakes up and goes to his computer.
  • 3:00 PM: Leaves room and goes to the kitchen.
  • 3:40 PM: Goes back to the room and returns to his computer.
  • 6:30 PM: Leaves his home and goes to the river east of his house to smoke.
  • 9:30 PM: Returns home for the night.

Thursday

  • 10:30 AM: Wakes up and gets on his computer.
  • 2:00 PM: Leaves his home and goes to the railroad north of his house to smoke.
  • 6:00 PM: Stands at the east tunnel of the railroad.
  • 7:30 PM: Stands at the west tunnel of the railroad.
  • 9:30 PM: Returns home for the night.

Friday

  • 10:30 AM: Wakes up and gets on his computer.
  • 3:00 PM: Leaves home and goes to The Stardrop Saloon, hanging out with Sam at the pool table for the evening.
  • 9:00 PM: Leaves the Saloon and heads back home.

Saturday

  • 9:00 AM: Wakes up and goes over to Sam's house where they meet outside, south-east of Sam's home.
  • 12:30 PM: Sebastian and Sam go inside of Sam's house and into his room to hang out.
  • 6:00 PM: Sebastian and Sam leave and stand by the river outside of Sam's house while Sebastian smokes.
  • 7:30 PM: Leaves Sam's house and goes home.
  • 9:50 PM: Arrives home.

Gifts

Loves

  • All Universal Loves
  • Frozen Tear
  • Obsidian
  • Pumpkin Soup
  • Sashimi
  • Void Egg

Likes

  • All Universal Likes (Except Flowers, Complete Breakfast, Farmer's Lunch, Omelet and Artisan Goods apart from Coffee, Green Tea and Oil)
  • Flounder
  • Quartz

Neutral

  • All Universal Neutrals
  • All Fruit (Except Fruit Tree Fruit & Salmonberry)
  • All Fish (Except Carp, Flounder, & Snail)
  • All Milk

Dislikes

  • All Universal Dislikes (Except Clay, Fish, Obsidian & Void Egg)
  • All Flowers (Except Poppy)
  • Chanterelle
  • Common Mushroom
  • Daffodil
  • Dandelion
  • Hazelnut
  • Holly
  • Leek
  • Morel
  • Purple Mushroom
  • Salmonberry
  • Snow Yam
  • Wild Horseradish
  • Winter Root

Hates

  • All Universal Hates
  • All Artisan Goods (Except Coffe, Green Tea & Oil)
  • All Eggs (Except Void Egg)
  • Clay
  • Complete Breakfast
  • Farmer's Lunch
  • Omelet

Heart Events

2 Hearts: Go to Sebastian's room and talk to him about his work. He will get annoyed because nobody takes his job seriously.

4 Hearts: Go to the mountain from 11 am to 5 pm and find Sebastian working on his motorcycle. He will ask you if you want to ride it some time and you can agree or disagree with no negative impact on your friendship. 

6 Hearts: Head to Sebastian’s room while he’s there and play a game with him. Pick a class, go through the front, defend yourself, then go to the hallway to your left, destroy the capsules, and go into the boss battle. Your choice will depend on your class: wizards have to defend their friends while the wizard is mumbling, healers will need to heal Sebastian, if you’re a warrior, block him.  

8 Hearts: Go to the boardwalk while it’s raining from 12 pm and 11 pm, a cutscene will ensue where Seb opens up a bit. 

10 Hearts: Head to the mountain between 8 pm and midnight. You'll ride to a play that he likes, there you can tell him to stop smoking if you want him to. He will then confess his feelings for you.

14 Hearts: Go to the mountain from 6 am to 7 pm and you’ll then have a conversation about a frog. Begin the second part of the event by going to your farmhouse between 6:20 am and 7 pm the next day. You'll now have a terrarium!

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